You have been taught to work hard through life from a young age but what if I tell you that you don’t have to any more. How will this affect you and why? In this blog post, I will leave you with some of my thoughts on the art of allowing and your world will change as you know it. For a quick disclaimer, not the expert here, just having lived life with some challenges along the way.
Our Friend Mr Google: “The “art of allowing” with the Law of Attraction means being ready to receive the abundance, love, well-being, or anything else you’ve been trying to attract. … The art of allowing these things involves deliberately shifting your thoughts and feelings into the state of already HAVING them.”
This art of allowing is one of the important factors that influences the Law of Attraction, as it happens in our minds with our thoughts and feelings. It’s not to be taken as not doing work, it’s about doing the work with inspired action, feeling good while doing the work.
When our parents told us to work hard, what did it mean or rather what did your subconscious mind think about the subject?
Our Friend Mr Google Says: “a great deal of effort or endurance.”
So basically, your subconscious mind is thinking, in order to achieve you need to work hard. Meaning, pain for a long period of time until you achieve your goal or objective. Only then will the pain be over and you’ll be able to enjoy life. Scary Thoughts!
Basic Rules for Alignment
Seek Happiness and Joy !!
Being in alignment with your true self, known as your inner being. In layman’s terms it is when your heart, your thoughts and your feelings are in congruent with each other. To know what you want with every fibre of your body and feeling good about the way you feel.
Why most people think that that law of attraction does not work is because they are out of alignment with themselves. They will tell you that they know what they want but what they don’t tell you is that they have a big fear of not achieving it so they work harder which then intensifies the fear which again makes them work harder and so on.
Law of Attraction Steps
Step 1: Contrast happens in our lives. (Negative situations in our life, which then allows us to know what we do not want.)
Step 2: We ask what we want. (Because of step 1, showing us what we don’t want.)
Step 3: Allowing, getting ready for what we have asked for.
Then the cycle goes back to step 1, life happens.
Understanding the Steps
Step 1 is the place where most of us are stuck in. Life is happening around us and we are working hard at it, experiencing the ups and downs with out knowing that we should be moving onto step 2, asking for what we want.
How do we ask, well it’s simple. Speak the words of exactly what you want and write them down. In basic terms, its goal setting. Step 2 completed.
Step 3, believe that for that which you have asked for, is on it’s way and allowing the universe to give it to you.
But while you have moved out of step 1 and onto step 2 and 3. Step 1 starts all over again with another life situation. Now you do the same thing over again, move out of step 1 and onto step 2 and 3.
Now you must pay attention here, if the second ask is now in contradiction to the first ask, you will confuse the universe and will not know what to deliver to you until you clear the matter up.
So, by now you know that step 1 is happening all the time and you move out of step 1 onto steps 2 and 3 briefly then back to step 1. They way I understand it is that this is the way that universe double checks with you all the time to check if you have not change your mind and when you really know what you want and you have asked in such a way that there is no confusion, the universe will deliver. But remember it knows best and you must trust that it will deliver at the perfect time.
A Simple Story
As I have told you, I’m not the expert just on a journey, changing my thoughts because I was that person that drove myself, working hard to achieve. The other day I needed to speak to my son about a sensitive subject and I was getting worked up within myself to talk to him. I caught myself in this frame of mind, I immediately said to myself the universe knows the situation and what my intentions are so I will now allow the universe to present me with the perfect time and place for me to talk to my son. The next day my son came to me and we had the perfect conversation. After this I thought WOW, I have now learnt my lesson, on a small scale of course.
The art of allowing is knowing what you want, down to the final detail, along with the thoughts and most all the feelings with the belief that the universe will deliver it to you.